Saturday, May 12, 2012

How do i get my boyfriend to do a HIV/AIDS test

How do i get my boyfriend to do a HIV/AIDS test.?
I just started dated him, and he always gets sick and yeah just to make sure i want him to get tested. But he gets butt hurt when i ask him questions like that. He says i dont trust him and shit. So how do i bring up that i want him to get tested without hurting his feeling or making him mad.
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just tell him your nervous about having sex if you dont know if he has something and tell him he should not hav to worry about it if he dose not have anything. and you have to ask for hiv and herpes to be added to the std test
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Ask him to get fully screened for STD's including HIV. Any guy that I've ever asked to do that hasn't had a problem doing it, it's for his health just as much as yours. It's a perfectly reasonable request, if he refuses, that says a lot about his lack of character and respect for you. Just tell him that you will not sleep with a guy unless he gets fully screened, and offer to do the same. Getting tested as well helps to make him feel less like you don' trust him, and more like yu just want to do the responsible thing and be safe. Then you two can go to planed parenthood together and get tested, but you should ALWAYS use condoms, even if you both are clean. If he straight up refuses, break up with him. It isn't asking a lot for him to go get tested, if he cares about you he'll do it. Bottom line. Good luck!
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Just suggest that you guys go together to both get one done.
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When diagnosed and treated early, almost all STDs can be treated effectively. Some organisms, such as certain forms of gonococci, have become resistant to the drugs used to treat them and now require higher doses or newer types of antibiotics. If you think that you may have contracted a sexually transmitted disease, you may feel confused about where you can turn to for help.

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